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10 Signs You’re Overthinking Things

February 15, 2021 By Melissa

There’s an epidemic sweeping across the population.

It isn’t from a pathogen floating in the air, or a substance lying on a table surface. It’s right in our heads.

We’re faced with levels of uncertainty that many of us have never had to deal with. We’re faced with concerns about whether things will remain stable. And then there’s the inability to make future plans, which leaves people with lots of spare time.

Lots of time to think. Lots of time to worry. Lots of time to overthink.

Overthinking has always been prevalent. A study showed that 73 percent of 25 to 35 year olds overthink, while 52 percent of 45 to 55 year olds overthink. A large part of the population is doing a lot of thinking.

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Filed Under: Stress Tagged With: brain, change, happiness, health, life lesson, mindset, positivity, stress

8 Reasons to Keep Moving Forward When You Feel Self-Doubt

January 18, 2021 By Melissa

Do you ever have one of those down days where you’ve fallen and can’t get up?

You’ve spent all your energy and have none left. You’ve exhausted every avenue you had. You’ve run into obstacles that you can’t climb over.

If this sounds familiar, no wonder you feel uncertain about things.

You’ve put in all the effort, only to yield little results. You started at the same time as everyone else, only for others to leapfrog over you. You realize that your time is limited, and yet you’ve squandered it away.

No wonder you feel doubtful about yourself.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: change, inspirational, life, life lesson, mindset, motivation, stress, success

What to Do When Everything is Up In the Air

January 4, 2021 By Melissa

It’s been a hard year.

Over the past several months, we’ve been faced with challenges that none of us have had to deal with before. All of a sudden, everybody’s lives have changed dramatically.

We can’t celebrate special occasions with loved ones out of safety reasons. Many of us are struggling to cope with a mix of emotions, such as fear, sadness, and loneliness. It feels like everything is just hanging in the air, full of uncertainty.

When will it end? And what do we do in the meantime?

The easiest and most obvious answer is: wait. Wait. That’s a heavy word.

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Filed Under: Stress Tagged With: change, complacent, failure, habits, happiness, life, life lesson, mindset, motivation, productivity, stress

Should You Suffer Now to Enjoy Life Later?

December 7, 2020 By Melissa

We’re stuck in an age-old dichotomy.

Work hard now, reap the rewards later. Enjoy life now, suffer the consequences later. We’re told you can’t have both, especially not at the same time.

When you’re stuck doing something that makes you unhappy, the feeling worsens when you look around and notice other people enjoying themselves. To console yourself, you tell yourself that same line.

You’re suffering now so that you can have a better future down the road. Meanwhile, others who aren’t suffering are going to have to pay the price later. It all evens out in the end.

The question is: Does it?

Why is suffering seen as a prized state of being? Is there something to be gained from pain?

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: change, goal setting, happiness, inspirational, life, life lesson, mindset, productivity, stress, success

How to Spend More Time Outdoors When You’re Stuck Indoors

September 28, 2020 By Melissa

Being cooped up indoors is unpleasant, to say the least.

When you’re kept away from fresh air, green trees, and bright sunlight, it takes a toll on you and your body. Over long periods, you feel anxious, depressed, and lethargic. Your body’s various systems respond by increasing blood pressure, tensing up muscles, and producing stress hormones.

The good news is that these effects can quickly go away with exposure to a better environment. When stressed or unhappy, people often flock to nature for refuge. People are universally drawn to natural settings for the sense of calm and overall well-being they provide.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: happiness, life, life lesson, nature, stress

Overthinking is Damaging Your Well-Being

May 25, 2020 By Melissa

Imagine that it’s close to bedtime.

You’ve finished a long day of work, ate dinner, and watched TV. You get into bed and relax by doing some reading.

After a while, you realize it’s getting late and decide to call it a night. You reach over and turn off the light. It’s pitch dark now.

You know you should be falling asleep. And yet there you are, staring at the ceiling. Your mind is racing with all sorts of thoughts.

You think back to something you said and wonder if things came out wrong. You reflect on a past action that resulted in negative consequences. Then, you start to worry about all the things that could possibly go wrong.

With each passing thought, you feel yourself sinking into a low mood.

If this sounds like you, you may be suffering from overthinking.

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Filed Under: Health Tagged With: brain, happiness, health, life lesson, mindset, psychology, research, stress

Slow Down and Take a Deep Breath

October 21, 2019 By Melissa

We normally think perfection is the final stage in a process. But it’s not. There’s another step that comes after: speed.

When you first learn a skill or create something, you struggle. You go through trial and error, trying to figure out what went wrong. The going is slow.

Then, you start seeing small glimmers of success. You receive positive feedback. You begin to feel more confident as you get closer to where you want to be.

Finally, you have it. The ideal prototype. Your technique nailed down. A system in place. Now that the structure is in order, the next step is to go faster, and faster… and faster.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: change, gut feeling, habits, happiness, health, life lesson, mindset, productivity, psychology, stress

10 Things That Will Matter a Lot More in 10 Years

October 7, 2019 By Melissa

Can you imagine your life in 10 years’ time?

It’s hard, isn’t it? There are so many variables, so many unknowns, it’s nearly impossible to predict what’s in store. Chance events happen, and you end up in situations that no one could foresee.

But then you look at people ahead of you for reference. They’re a decade or two older than you. You notice how their lives have panned out.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: change, happiness, life, life lesson, mindset, positivity, productivity, psychology, stress, success

10 Things That Will Matter a Lot Less in 10 Years

December 31, 2018 By Melissa

“My life is over.”

Have those words ever crossed your mind? That moment when something so catastrophic, disastrous, and damage-inducing occurred that you never thought you would recover? That moment when there were no other roads, when you had run out of options?

And yet, here you are.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: change, happiness, life, life lesson, mindset, positivity, productivity, psychology, stress, success

This Parable Shows Why You Shouldn’t Sweat the Small Stuff

December 17, 2018 By Melissa

“If only…”

Any sentence that starts with these words never ends well. It’s filled with pain, loss, and the feeling of unfulfilled potential. We believe that if only things happened differently, then the rest would fall into place.

Like heavy snow on a rooftop, fixating on the negatives will weigh you down. When the burden is too great, the foundations weaken. Then, they collapse.

In the face of disappointment, it’s easy to lie down and not want to get back up.

But things are not always what they seem. What seems bad may not be so bad after all. It may even turn out to be good.

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Filed Under: Stress Tagged With: happiness, health, inspirational, life lesson, mindset, parable, persistence, philosophy, stress, success

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